Posted by shrinking violet on August 27, 2004, at 19:30:01
In reply to Re: T cancelled next appt.... *sob, whine*, posted by Susan47 on August 26, 2004, at 14:42:29
>> Violet, You said you're getting closer to your T with every session now, and but you're more needy in between. The two kind of go together maybe.
Hm, possibly. In a way it doesn't make sense: why would I want more of her since I am getting more of her now (i.e. she's sharing more of herself, etc)? But you're right, it's a possibility. I also think, that since she's pretty much been the one person in my whole life (including family, parents) who has acknowledged me, understood me, took the time to talk to me and find out who I am, and who I feel genuinely cares, maybe the part of me that was "starved" for so long is now being "fed" by her (interestingly, I also have anorexia, so part of that might be my emotional starvation manifested), so now that it's being "filled" or "fed," it wants more to make up for what it didn't get. Does that make sense? I don't know, it's just a theory; I might run it by her next time.Thanks for your response, I appreciate it. :)
-SV
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