B2chica.....

Posted by Susan47 on July 30, 2004, at 18:07:41

In reply to Re: if the bridge leads... » AuntieMel, posted by B2chica on July 30, 2004, at 16:16:33

What you say here, ....-
"and herein lies the problem. we have been married for almost 7 years now. i trusted him completely up until the year after we were married. When i found out about who his true other partner was...(his mother). he tells her everything. Yes i love her dearly she is a wonderful woman. But anything i've ever told him goes straight to her. Believe me, i ache to trust him again and i "test the waters" every year, and each time i find out it's gone. he tells, he always tells.
and yes i feel HORRIBLE, i feel like a sneaky manipulative person for "testing" the way i do but i have to. and each time i'm proven right. There will never be anything that i tell him that she won't know."
I've been here too. It feels like a huge betrayal (and I think it is: it showed me my husband was a *weak, weak man*.)
Thanks for listening and sharing.

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if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? partlycloudy 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still » B2chica partlycloudy 7/30/04
Have you ever heard of Temple Grandin? » B2chica Racer 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still » B2chica AuntieMel 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » partlycloudy B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? JenStar 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? JenStar 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » AuntieMel B2chica 7/30/04
Re: Have you ever heard of Temple Grandin? » Racer B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » JenStar B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » B2chica AuntieMel 7/30/04
B2chica..... Susan47 7/30/04
B2chica.....when I don't.... Susan47 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... Susan47 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? daisym 7/30/04
Here's what worked for us: » B2chica Racer 7/30/04
Re: Bridge to support Shadowplayers721 7/31/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? » daisym Dinah 7/31/04
(((((((B2chica))))))) Susan47 7/31/04
Marriage and Communication » Dinah DaisyM 7/31/04
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Re: if the bridge leads... JenStar 7/31/04
» (((B2c))) and » (((Jenstar))) (nm) 64bowtie 7/31/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still » daisym B2chica 8/1/04
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I'm honoured » B2chica partlycloudy 8/2/04

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