Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go?

Posted by JenStar on July 30, 2004, at 16:10:35

In reply to if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go?, posted by B2chica on July 30, 2004, at 14:18:30

is your husband nice? Is he kind? Does he make you laugh? Does he treat you with love and respect? Does he smile at you and take care of you?
If yes, then don't give up. He may be worth the pain.
If he treats you badly, hits you, belittles you in any way, makes you feel like a loser or a burden -- not YOU imagining this -- but him really SAYING or ACTING this way -- then you might be better off without him.
But I think that's a separate issues from the internal issues you have right now.
Can you talk to HIM about this? If you feel the relationship is in trouble, likely he does too, right?
I wish you all the best. I hope things go well for you.
JenStar

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if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? partlycloudy 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still » B2chica partlycloudy 7/30/04
Have you ever heard of Temple Grandin? » B2chica Racer 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still » B2chica AuntieMel 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » partlycloudy B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? JenStar 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? JenStar 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » AuntieMel B2chica 7/30/04
Re: Have you ever heard of Temple Grandin? » Racer B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » JenStar B2chica 7/30/04
Re: if the bridge leads... » B2chica AuntieMel 7/30/04
B2chica..... Susan47 7/30/04
B2chica.....when I don't.... Susan47 7/30/04
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Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? daisym 7/30/04
Here's what worked for us: » B2chica Racer 7/30/04
Re: Bridge to support Shadowplayers721 7/31/04
Re: if the bridge leads to slaughter do you still go? » daisym Dinah 7/31/04
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I'm honoured » B2chica partlycloudy 8/2/04

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