Posted by Aphrodite on June 4, 2004, at 20:23:28
In reply to Making Mountains out of Molehills...., posted by mair on June 3, 2004, at 17:03:00
I guess it's natural in any kind of relationship to have mutual "worrying." In a way, I think it is a good sign that you truly care about her happiness and well-being beyond what she is for you. That's a wonderful gift. The key, I suppose, is balance, that you are more concerned with how you are being healed then how you can help her. It's only natural to be concerned about those we care about it. Since you know so much, it may be hard just to cut it off. Maybe you need to know the end of the story, and then from there, you can move on from the details of her life. Sounds like she's willing to get you there.
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