Posted by mair on June 3, 2004, at 9:55:04
In reply to Re: Be Careful What You Wish For (long) » mair, posted by crushedout on June 2, 2004, at 22:21:48
Yeah, well my T may be mature, but I don't feel that way at all. The last thing in the world I want to talk to my T about is how I feel about her situation, and I have a reasonable explanation (reasonable to me) as to why I shouldn't. I'm pretty much dreading therapy this afternoon because I'm not sure how well I can deal with my desire not to deal with it.
I've had male therapists before and I never fantasized about being married to them, or about being their child - both were nearly old enough to be my father. My T is younger than I am; I fantasize about her sometimes, but I'm rarely part of the fantasy. I think I probably work pretty hard to keep her at a real distance; I'm not at all happy that with this current set of circumstances, I find myself feeling really bad for her and feeling very worried as well. I don't like imagining the reality of what I think she's going through.
Mair
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