Posted by SatinDoll on November 26, 2006, at 20:54:27
In reply to Re: How to Support and Help, posted by Dr. Bob on November 26, 2006, at 18:02:36
> > I think it is best if I just remove myself from this situation completely. sorry again. I am trying to be honest, but I don't know how to do that and remain correct in the babble way, because I don't understand the rules.
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> It may best for some posters if they remove themselves, but this is also an opportunity to work on interacting supportively. Which can be hard, and frustrating both for those want help and those who want to help.Well Dr. Bob, I would like to interact on this to help Deneb, but with the threat of getting blocked, especially when I need support of Babble myself, is too high of a price to pay.
I truely thought my post WAS civil, and I don't know if the warning was for me directly, even if it was applied to everyone, it was enough to scare me away from the situation. If you know a better way to get my point across without risking myself getting blocked for being honest,while still keeping the message intact, I would like to see it done.
I think it would also helpful if you write something on how to ACCEPT help and support when given, even if it isn't what they want to hear, without threatening sucide and "making" us post things to make them not do it, and to forse us to say we are sorry when all we did was try to help.
poster:SatinDoll
thread:703525
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/eating/20061124/msgs/707649.html