Posted by judy1 on February 11, 2004, at 19:57:29
In reply to Re: Dunno about shar.....me, neither!, posted by shar on February 10, 2004, at 22:00:07
I think I'm really stuck with the fear of abandonment/expressing anger issue. I guess because even as an adult it has been an issue, and if anger is not the cause of the abandonment- then I *really* feel my unexpressed anger was (which I realize sounds irrational).
this is unrelated, but my shrink actually called me today asking when I was going to come in (I don't think he has ever done that). I haven't seen him in a while, mostly because I'm so good at denial I start believing I don't need to see anyone. at first I said I would call him next week and make an appt., but I landed up calling him 10 minutes later and made an appt. in a few days- I think I felt like he cared. he's always been so careful with me because of my ex-shrink's boundary crossing, that this really surprised me. full circle- dare I think he won't abandon me?
sorry for the rambling- judy
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