Posted by Susan47 on January 27, 2005, at 12:15:08
In reply to Re: Suze..., posted by sunny10 on January 27, 2005, at 11:05:25
I'm exploding in TEARS right now.
You wrote, "My old T told ME that whenever we "allow" ourselves to fall in love with someone that we cannot have, we are really just falling in love with qualities that we long for and already possess within ourselves, but for whatever "learned behavior/thinking" just don't think we possess or are capable of having."I know that's true. It's why I think he's so wonderful, it's because he reflects myself with who he is. It's okay to love myself, appreciate who I really am, not who I was made to reflect in the past.
poster:Susan47
thread:445467
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/write/20050118/msgs/448639.html