Posted by LegWarmers on January 26, 2006, at 20:46:24
In reply to Re: Bad Day » LegWarmers, posted by TexasChic on January 26, 2006, at 17:39:33
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> The weird thing about it is, she used to be really friendly and went out of her way to include me, but in the past few weeks or so, she's been different. Its not anything blatant, she just isn't as friendly and I notice she never looks at me when we're in a group talking. I don't have the foggiest what up with her.Maybe she feels threatened by you in some way? If you apply for this summer job does it affect her at all?
> I thought about doing that all day. But I just couldn't (fear of confrontation and all). He did seem to go out of his way to talk to me though. I still might say something to him about it if we're ever someplace other than work where I could talk to him alone.
I would just mention it casually, like "btw, you didnt mention what I told you to anyone did you?" and sound like you don't really care either way but you just wanted to mention it. See his reaction, maybe it would be better to drop it though....I dunno. hmm
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> I mostly kept to myself today. But unlike other days I've done that, people seemed to notice. Cuteboy kept talking to me, a couple of others went out of their way to too (people who usually don't even notice me), and at lunch one of the girls who is friends with the one I talked about earlier, insisted I come sit with them and stop being unsocialble. So I gave in. I made me feel better even though I still felt like I got the cold shoulder from the one girl.Thats great that you hung out with them! If someone is being weird with you and you value the friendship...try asking them about it? If it isnt that strong of a realtionship then I may just leave it and move on to someone else.
> Thanks for the support. I actually signed on and read your post this morning, it helped me be a little calmer.
:) Im glad>As for the job, its not as cool as it sounds, but I am eternally grateful to have it and not one of the jobs from hell I've had before. And although it may not be the most rewarding job in the world like being a nurse or social worker, its at least something that sometimes draws on my artistic talent, which makes it sort of fun. I always hated all my jobs before, so that's a big change for me.
Yeah its nice when you can find something that you like.
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> Thanks again for the support!
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> -T
>Anytime :)
I hope tomorrow goes well
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