Posted by jinglebts on October 3, 2003, at 14:19:27
In reply to My Brother's Going Thru the Same Thing!!!! » JJC, posted by Susan J on October 3, 2003, at 10:24:54
this is a very good idea -- i call it "getting your ducks in a row", and it's just calmly, rationally, seeing what your future MIGHT be, and being prepared ... for my first divorce, 30 years ago now, i had a bad lawyer and did some things that ultimately screwed both me AND my daughter ... now, i don't think it'll come to this, but i MUST do some financial planning should i decide to leave my second husband (he's ADD,and so far not coping well at all well) -- i must know what i'm up against, and the heat of battle is not the time to do it ...
i feel for your husband, the orphan, very much, but you must care for yourself too ...
jb
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