Posted by Clari on September 17, 2007, at 19:06:36
In reply to Re: emotional abusers + victims, how do you know? » Clari, posted by Squiggles on September 17, 2007, at 14:04:07
Thanks for you replies, Squiggles.
I have one friend who hasn't met my partner, but says that there is a lot of control going on... that it's a classic case.
Yet my partner's family, who spend time with us, believe that I am to blame for everything going wrong.
So either both of us are in the wrong...
Or we are telling our subjective points of view to our friends and family, and therefore they see the side that we tell them.
Which leaves me even more confused.
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