Posted by antigua on January 24, 2006, at 8:19:14
In reply to Divorce vs. Suicide (trigger), posted by Daisym on January 23, 2006, at 1:50:59
You took a big step by confronting your husband, and it turned out ugly. That doesn't mean you are ugly or bad, just that the situation is. He pressed buttons that he knew would upset you. Despite all the time and effort you have put into his situation, you have your own life to live.
You have three (right?) wonderful sons and you don't want to leave them to him to explain what you've done. He is wrong and you are right.
Your T will help; he always does. It's hard to see that this might be progress, but speaking your mind to your husband is a huge step.
love,
antigua
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