Posted by jonquiljo on January 23, 2006, at 14:21:45
In reply to Divorce vs. Suicide (trigger), posted by Daisym on January 23, 2006, at 1:50:59
Caraher said it best ... "you are so much more than your marriage". How true. There are so many options for you in the world. It sounds to me like death SHOULDN'T be one of them.
In a marriage, we all get consumed somewhat. Its hard to see outside - whats going on and what is available for us. When things go wrong we blame it on ourselves - and often feel like ther are no options. But there are.
Give yourself some credit for your own life. Your kid needs you, there are other people in your life that need you - and best of all, you probably need you.
You will do the best thing, divorce or not. Youre venting on this board - thats a good thing. We all need time to vent and think.
poster:jonquiljo
thread:601987
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/relate/20051204/msgs/602104.html