Posted by alexandra_k on June 5, 2005, at 23:09:16
In reply to Re: Careful this is expl. could trigger I suppose?, posted by Susan47 on June 5, 2005, at 22:01:52
> Some men, MOST men, are simply not worth the effort, for me. There's nothing, not enough, Enough Stuff, Good Stuff, you know, about them, to make it worth the while.
Ok... But... One should be careful about being quick to come to that conclusion. For the reason that sometimes one finds that the people one is most overtly attracted to are actually the ones that you should be running a mile from. And the 'inconspicuous' ones who just sort of pass you by unnoticed... Well, once you get to know them then you find out that they are the real keepers.
But friends first. IMO that is the way. Even if you don't think you will be all that interested.
I find myself fairly clearly attracted to certain types....
But then others. The ones who seem ordinary.. They tend to be the ones who become stunning on the basis of personality. Because sex appeal is to a very large extent in the eye of the beholder. And if you come to really care for someone to really love them and like them then the rest should follow Susan. Whereas the people who catch your eye probably tend to be the flashy people who appreciate their affect and use it to get what they want even if it means exploitation. Do you get me?????>And most of them want a mommy. Which they would only get for about five seconds, from me.
Yeah. I'm not known for being particularly soothing or easygoing myself...
>And I'm sick and tired of men who spend half their life in the john, and burp and snort and f*rt and sweat like nobody's business, then expect you to feel sexual toward them.
Sigh.
I dare say they don't notice.
Stuff like that really doesn't seem to bug them.
I don't know what thats about...Larry?????
> I'm also sick of guys who think it's sexy or male to have a short temper. They make me cringe.
HA HA!!!
Yay, don't ya just love the 'macho' type?????
I have to be careful of guys like that.
I'm too much of a temptation when it comes to slapping someone around because I insist on being argumentative and strongwilled.
But.... I do feel sorry
That they have to resort to that
In the attempt to feel secure in themselves
They need help
But I'm not in the position to
So I just leave 'em alone.
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