Posted by alexandra_k on June 5, 2005, at 20:57:15
In reply to Re: Careful this is expl. could trigger I suppose?, posted by alexandra_k on June 5, 2005, at 18:40:05
... then LEAVE THE ROOM! Thats not so very hard. I mean it might just slip out accidental like, but it really isn't that hard to leave the room. Out of consideration for others. Likewise there are more or less conspicuous ways of 'arranging ones package' . And there are appropriate places to go to pick ones nose.
Sigh.
Is this really so very hard for some people??????
Adagrace - make them do their own washing. It isn't that hard. Just write a note 'I'm not doing other peoples washing anymore' and leave it on the fridge and there you go. There is no reason on earth why you should have to do their washing. If they are old enough to insist on 2 new towels then they are old enough to wash their towels. Washing simply isn't that hard and it teaches them invaluable life skills in how to look after themselves. And it gives you a little more breathing space. (Hint - you might want to hide a couple towels for you first as they might try to break you by using them all up)
I need time alone too.
Yup.
I want an office one day, all to myself.
A nice inbuilt bookcase wall thingie :-)
And a HUGE desk.
I need space to myself.
IMO EVERYBODY needs space to themself.
If you haven't discovered the joy of having a little time JUST FOR YOU then you need to do that for your own sanity.And so that it isn't such a problem if your partner needs that too.
Some people need more time to themself than others.
It can be hard if one person needs more time than the other.But everybody should have time...
I really think everyone should.Yup Adagrace
I can see why you are upset.
But you do need to get the changes rolling along.
IMO stop doing their washing. Thats a sensible first move.
Next thing can be that they can fend for themselves foodwise two days (or at least two dinners) per week.
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