Posted by Susan47 on June 5, 2005, at 22:01:52
In reply to Re: Careful this is expl. could trigger I suppose?, posted by alexandra_k on June 5, 2005, at 18:40:05
I was trying to explain to a well-married friend today, my feelings about wanting nothing but real friendship and companionship from some men, and how that has to be exclusive from having sex with the same men. Some men, MOST men, are simply not worth the effort, for me. There's nothing, not enough, Enough Stuff, Good Stuff, you know, about them, to make it worth the while. And most of them want a mommy. Which they would only get for about five seconds, from me. And I'm sick and tired of men who spend half their life in the john, and burp and snort and f*rt and sweat like nobody's business, then expect you to feel sexual toward them. I don't think most men appreciate that in a woman, yet they expect they can get away with it because of their sex, somehow that stuff is not supposed to affect us. And I guess maybe it doesn't affect men when women behave in beastly ways, but they don't respect our sensibilities enough. They really don't. Not most of them. I'm just sick of unshaved, t-shirt-toting, blue-jeans-and-sneakers guys who think they're something. They're not. They're not interested enough in themselves, never mind in anyone else.
Sorry, see, my personal prejudices are here, right here, up front, but so be it. It's my personal experience. I'm also sick of guys who think it's sexy or male to have a short temper. They make me cringe.
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