Posted by Toph on May 28, 2005, at 23:57:15
In reply to Ever wonder about monogomy?, posted by Jazzed on May 26, 2005, at 4:17:33
This is what I wonder about monogamy Jazzed. As a social worker I have worked with countless women in the last 25 years. I have respected most and loved four. I only slept with one of those four, this cute discharge planner who incidently is now my wife. I never slept with the others, though I fantasized about it and once came perilously close drinking together at a conference on the Queeen Mary in Long Beach years ago. An affair would have ruined my marriage, my friendship and my ability to work effectively with these special women. My wife, btw, is the love of my life. I love these other women differently but deeply. It does strike me as odd that infidelity can be such destructive betrayal of trust, but loving another platonically isn't.
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