Posted by Jazzed on May 26, 2005, at 9:13:22 [reposted on May 28, 2005, at 17:43:53 | original URL]
In reply to Re: Ever wonder about monogomy? » Jazzed, posted by Miss Honeychurch on May 26, 2005, at 8:38:36
This is kind of the way I see it too. I"m just not that bothered by it as some. I wouldn't want my husband to leave me, that would about kill me, and I sure wouldn't want to do that to him, but if he had an affair, so be it.
It's funny, I was talking to a friend of my husband's, and I was kidding around with him, telling him that my husband has a girlfriend at work, and once I convinced him that it was true I told him it didn't bother me. He suggested that we should be married because he'd love his wife to feel that way. She's very controlling and domineering.
I agree that for women it's generally emotional, and for men not necessarily, it's more physical, at least initially. That's where the problems sometimes lie I think. We look for love, that's also what happens a lot of times in therapy I guess.
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