Posted by alexandra_k on May 30, 2005, at 3:06:43
In reply to Re: Ever wonder about monogomy? » Larry Hoover, posted by Damos on May 29, 2005, at 17:35:20
Hmm.
I like to think that if I do meet someone someday then we will make a committment to each other to be faithful as a part of that.
But really, what it would be about (to me) would be trust. That would be the issue.
Whether they *have* to be completely faithful to me might be something that could come up in conversation... It might be possible...
But it would be breaking my trust to do it *before* talking to me about it or despite my objecting to it or trying to hide it from me etc.
And of course I would reciprocate that courtesy.
I don't know.
I think there is a lot of leeway with respect to people finding out what is right for them.And sometimes we need to make mistakes along the way...
I don't know.
See what happens I suppose.
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