Posted by alexandra_k on April 24, 2005, at 0:33:52
In reply to Re: And... » alexandra_k, posted by 10derHeart on April 24, 2005, at 0:05:24
WOW! I CAN'T BELIEVE I MISSED THAT!!!
Really.
I missed the whole thread.
Thanks for the link :-)
Gosh peoples, thats a long time...
Wow.
I really long time.
I meant that we had stopped it for a long while as in a few months. Yup. 'A long time' is relative.> I am absolutely not dismissing your missing sex - something that is natural and given to us as a gift. Everyone, in a perfect world, would be in a beautiful, amazing sexual relationship.
Mmm
> LOL. Hahaha. I suppose the meaning of "it's been a long while" is relative...but for Damos and me at least, well, IT'S REALLY, REALLY, REALLY BEEN A LONG WHILE!!
Yup. I don't know that I could wait that long. Really.
> I couldn't resist. Oh Alex, it'll be okay. It's worth waiting until it is more than an arrangement, don't you think? Don't mean to preach, but then, maybe I do.Hmm. I'm not sure. I think there are two aspects (1) recreation (2) love. I would probably prefer the latter - but most of my issues are around that. I guess I'm more thinking of the first one at the mo...
> I just hate to imagine anyone adding any emptiness to your life in the name of a supposed closeness through physical intimacy, that is really just just an illusion. It can be so much more.Mmm. Can be fun though :-)
> Your soul, dear girl, needs the special nourishment that can come through someone touching you, really touching *you* out of pure love and a fierce desire to please and satisfy you. Because they've already come to know you and desire your mind and spirit, without ever having laid a hand on you in a sexual way. That is my wish for you.Mmm. I imagine there is something to be said for that too... I don't know. I don't believe anyone would ever really love me. I don't believe I am capable of really loving another. Especially the latter. I really don't think that I am. That saddens me. But there it is.
(((10derHeart)))
(((Damos)))
Wow guys.
Things will work out for you.
They have to.
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