Posted by 10derHeart on April 24, 2005, at 0:05:24
In reply to Re: And..., posted by alexandra_k on April 23, 2005, at 19:58:11
> ...I miss sex.
> I do.
> But it is over now. It has been a long whileOh, my. I am about to be bad.
And even worse, no one is probably going to get what I'm saying.
But I have to try.I am absolutely not dismissing your missing sex - something that is natural and given to us as a gift. Everyone, in a perfect world, would be in a beautiful, amazing sexual relationship.
I am also not meaning to be the person who says, "oh, yeah, well MY problem's bigger than yours, let me tell you..."
But I can't HELP it, this is just too perfect.
You must read here:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20050408/msgs/483431.html
and then my post maybe about 12 down from Damos' if you'd like to know my..uh...magic number.... (if you don't read the whole thread)
LOL. Hahaha. I suppose the meaning of "it's been a long while" is relative...but for Damos and me at least, well, IT'S REALLY, REALLY, REALLY BEEN A LONG WHILE!!
I couldn't resist. Oh Alex, it'll be okay. It's worth waiting until it is more than an arrangement, don't you think? Don't mean to preach, but then, maybe I do.
I just hate to imagine anyone adding any emptiness to your life in the name of a supposed closeness through physical intimacy, that is really just just an illusion. It can be so much more.
Your soul, dear girl, needs the special nourishment that can come through someone touching you, really touching *you* out of pure love and a fierce desire to please and satisfy you. Because they've already come to know you and desire your mind and spirit, without ever having laid a hand on you in a sexual way. That is my wish for you.
(Damos, dear, one, don't kill me for directing her attention to this infamous thread where we made our confessions and subjected poor Susan to several shocks..... ;-) )
poster:10derHeart
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