Posted by alexandra_k on April 23, 2005, at 21:35:27
In reply to Re: BUT I DON'T WANNA BE ALONE (Long), posted by Susan47 on April 23, 2005, at 20:26:47
Hmm. Dating. I don't think I have ever really been on a date. It isn't so much a part of our culture as a regular thing to do like it is in the US. I guess we tend to go out in packs with friends of both genders and sometimes you hit it off with one of them or someone else you hook up with while you are out and sometimes you don't.
But I am not into that scene. The bar scene. All the half-naked posing girls scene. I'm more into jeans and t-shirts really. Too many people make me nervous. I am really not a flirt at all. Just the idea of it makes me look at the ground. But I come alive in bed. It is suprising apparantly, I am suprising.
So dating isn't really an option for me.
But if I don't do that
If I don't even go out then how am I ever going to meet someone?
A couple of my students tried to keep up a bit of contact with me after the course had finished - but I feel funny about that. And they are 18. Too young. Too young for me. And I think of them as kids anyway.But I need to do something.
I do.
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