Posted by partlycloudy on October 15, 2004, at 16:53:07
In reply to Re: Affairs - partlycloudy, posted by dazedandconfused on October 15, 2004, at 16:35:05
I don't feel so wonderful right now, but thank you.
I had a moment of lucidity (oh, how I miss those), when I thought to myself - do I want to keep hiding? Do I want to be the Other Woman instead of The Main Squeeze? When my marriage ended, it really felt like I had no need of the emotional and sensual escape that the affair had provided.
He, um, did not take it very well. But I haven't heard from him since, and I have stopped looking for him too. That was the greatest release of all, to be able to put the past away where it belongs. I needed a lot of help from my therapist to do it.
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