Posted by saw on October 1, 2004, at 1:49:19
In reply to Re: Living in the basement, posted by Michael_M on September 30, 2004, at 16:59:24
<<I've been reading a lot of old posts, and it seems to me that what people write is that they suffered through a great deal before somehow coming to a decision that enough was enough. >>
Dear Michael
I REALLY SHOULD NOT be posting this morning. I am ULTRA emotional, but just have to say that you have answered you own frightening questions. Look above!!
<<<thinking that what I really want is for someone to tell me to go ahead and get a divorce. Even if it's just an anonymous poster, I just need some reinforcement. >>>
I am anonymous. And I feel for what you are going through. And I feel for your wife, whatever that might mean. Reinforcement??? I wanted to say in capital letters, get a divorce, but realised that I CAN'T tell you or wish you to do that. Michael, my friend, only YOU can decide and eventually know what it is you want to do. So many very caring people told me to get a divorce. It meant JACK SH#T until I knew (and that took a very, very long time) just what I wanted, and eventually ........... needed.... to do.
I really feel for your pain and insecurity and fear right now.
Michael, wishing you peace, even if it's elusive, and much strength right now.
Sabrina
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