Posted by annierose on December 23, 2010, at 17:50:34
In reply to Re: I try to never do this, but...., posted by 10derheart on December 23, 2010, at 16:21:46
how can I hate someone so much and love them so much at the same time?
he disappointed you in such a hurtful way. the love is still there underneath all that hurt. i imagine he was given this "advice" in supervision and i also imagine he is worried about how you received his "no contact, no explanation" rule. you can still send him this note - just so he can't pretend he doesn't know how much you are hurting.
where is partly cloudy to issue several hundred cyber slaps?
i'm thinking about you. time does have an amazing why to distance yourself from the immediate jolt of his words. you need to grieve this loss and grief sucks.
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