Posted by sassyfrancesca on December 21, 2009, at 14:48:56
In reply to Sharing my story (Very Long Post), posted by Verloren on December 21, 2009, at 9:08:43
Oh, sweetie: You must be beautiful.....your pain and anguish are palpable.....I understand love (I don't call it transference---that is just a fancy psych. word...for feelings). I fell in love with my t 5 years ago.
I don't know what childhood background you have, but so many of us were abused, and that sets us up to have such a need and longing for love, acceptance and even celebration......
When you were born, you were beautiful, perfect and innocent. Somewhere along the way a person or persons told you differently,and now as an adult you have to get over those lies that were told to you (which was really how those people thought about THEMselves), but as children we aren't sophisticated enough to figure that out. Please keep posting.
I care and we all do here; Babble is a wonderful group. We are ALL worthy valuable human beings on the planet; how sad we have to endure such sadness and pain......
Hugs N Love, Sassy
P.S. I really don't understand why you cant' see 2 t's at the same time.
I got a divorce after 31 years of abuse.....alone....is excruciating.
poster:sassyfrancesca
thread:930143
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