Posted by Helana on December 21, 2009, at 12:02:40
In reply to Sharing my story (Very Long Post), posted by Verloren on December 21, 2009, at 9:08:43
Hi Verloren, Welcome to bable. Thank you for sharing your story because although you are looking for support in return you give support. It helps me to read your story and know that I am not alone and I struggle with the same transference as you! There smile is killer isn't it ;)
If I gave you any advice it would be to read your post to your T and let therapy happen...If she's good things will work themselves out, but you have to give her the chance.
I know how important she is to you and how you don't want to mess anything up and take the chance of losing her, but let me tell you, you have a greater chance of loser her if you don't open up and let her in.
I am sorry that no one is there when you feel that alone. It is an aweful feeling. It's important to just get through the feeling and remember that it will pass. If I were there I would give you a big hug and we could cuddle, watch a movie and not be alone. Being alone is the worst feeling in the world for me, so I understand! At the same time I know how strong you are and you can get through it, remember that moment will pass. I know that sometimes we are sick of being strong, but we have to be, it's so worth it when we start figuring things out...I'm only two n a half years into therapy and I have changed so much. Being alone isn't nearly as difficult as it used to be. So my point is there's hope...it won't be like that forever as long as you take the chances in therapy that are difficult and scary.
Lot's of hugs and I hope I helped...if not at the very least I hope I didn't offend you at all...((((((((((hugs)))))))))))
Helena
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