Posted by raisinb on April 17, 2009, at 13:24:19
In reply to Too much pain **Trigger**, posted by TherapyGirl on April 16, 2009, at 20:33:50
TherapyGirl,
No, it is not okay for her to leave you. And yes, you will get through it, because, as Scott says, you will have to. Plus, you have the strength and you have babble. You can talk to us about it and we will understand.
Please tell her that she *has* to acknowledge what effect this will have on you and that you must work through these feelings as best you can. It's possible that her guilt and loss are preventing her from being totally open to this process. But that's her problem, really. For your sake, she needs to be there during this.
(((TG)))
poster:raisinb
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