Posted by FindingMyDesire on April 17, 2009, at 0:07:47
In reply to Too much pain **Trigger**, posted by TherapyGirl on April 16, 2009, at 20:33:50
Dear TherapyGirl,
Wow, I totally hear your pain. I can feel it in my chest and throat. I'm so sorry about this. I, too, really want for her to be able to be in this with you - really be in it. I agree with everything Dinah so beautifully wrote. This seems like the most important time of all to be fully and totally seen. Sure, I can imagine that it is super, super hard for her too. But she needs to see the pain that feels worse than death to you. Demand it if you can. After such a long, long time and after having such an important and unique relationship, I want a safe and nurturing transition for you.FMD
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