Posted by muffled on April 17, 2009, at 11:11:53
In reply to Re: Too much pain **Trigger** » TherapyGirl, posted by SLS on April 17, 2009, at 7:41:18
((((((TG)))))))))
Have you worked on looking for a new T?
I think this is a must do.
I would hunt on my own, but T can support you thru your anxiety about it, and good questions to ask etc.
I think it would be extreemly beneficial to have someone external to the relationship to help you thru this loss.
I think it could possibly feel like a betrayal to you as well as a death. Which makes it doubly hard.
I think this is likely very hard for your T as well, and so its very hard for her to approach this objectively and professionally. Your a nice person TG, so of course she cares, so ya, its gotta be hard for her too.
I think this is going to be, not impossible, but very hard for you two to sort thru this by yourselves.
You CAN find a new T.
T searching sucks, but its not that bad.
Kinda approach it in a very professional way. You are seeking a service.
And you may not find the right one first try, but you CAN find a T to help support you.
One that you can feel OK with. One you can talk to and yell at and cry with as needed.
Please do not, in your anger, shut your mind to this possibility.
I truly wish the best for you TG. I think you have lots to offer this world. You just need to get thru this very difficult time.
Its may sound sappy as hell, but we DO grow thru all these adverse things. We learn, and we can share our learning and compassion with others when the time is right.
There is a place in this world for all of us....just sometimes its hard to know what it is. Cuz we can't see too good while we healing, but once we get thru the crap, then, then our time will come! And its gonna feel good!
I am looking forward to one day being able to show others real love and caring. Its inside me, I just am too confused and afraid right now.
But I gonna be OK.
I gonna let others know about love.
I gonna help others in pain.
I gonna share burdens.
I gonna make this world better in maybe only small tiny ways.
But I gonna make it better.
I gonna add good.
Thats my plan.
Maybe you can share my plan too TG, I think its a good one.
I think you got lotsa love to share too.
((((TG)))
Muffled
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