Posted by lucie lu on March 8, 2009, at 11:16:55
In reply to Re: Anger, individuation, and taking risks (long), posted by cal on March 7, 2009, at 5:28:16
> Luci Lu,
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> Thanks for posting this today, this is exactly where I feel I am at the moment but not quite able to word it so well. Only yesterday in therapy I felt myself irritated at T's attempts to help me and ended up telling her I didn't want her feed back to which she replie I could always tell her to shut up, which put like that I didnt want to do that either and I felt just plain irritable, perhaps it was my own knowledge that I am becoming more able to sort my own thoughts and feelings out now and for an instant I experienced this and it scared me hence the irritation. I think your T is right about the relationship being about what we go through together rather than how dependent we remain which I need reminding off as indiviudation growing up was met with brutelity and withdrawal of care. Its always good to read that others are going through the same milestones!Cal, I feel the same way, so thanks for sharing yours :)
Lucie
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