Posted by lucie lu on March 9, 2009, at 11:44:54
In reply to Re: Anger, individuation, and taking risks (long), posted by antigua3 on March 9, 2009, at 8:42:33
> I'm just learning why I make these assumptions. Primarily because of the way I perceived my father as treating me, I expect men who are authoritative figures in my life to respond as my father did. But I've learned that's not necessarily true, but separating out what is a "real" vs. "perceived" perception is very, very difficult. That's why my pdoc surprises me so much at times--what I've been thinking about him all along has turned out to be false,but I was too blind to see it.
> good luck today,
> antiguaIt's interesting. Our T's really are not very alike (my T seems to be somewhere between your pdoc and T, maybe more like a male version of your T?), but you and I seem to have a lot of similarities. I suspect my T is not as clueless or unresponsive as I've been assuming. I will talk to him about that when I see him. I think it's time for a reality check.
It has been useful to me to hear of your insights on these issues, Antigua, so thanks for being so generous with your thoughts in your posts.
And your pdoc never fails to amaze me :)
~L.
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