Posted by workinprogress on March 4, 2009, at 10:02:42
In reply to Re: But I still leave feeling hurt sometimes » yellowbird01, posted by Dinah on March 4, 2009, at 8:36:01
I just want to note how very very impressed I am that you are thinking of things that could be causing this behavior that have nothing to do with you. Initially you talked about your voice. But now you're talking about reconnecting after an absence, that he takes on too much, I think there was another theory you posited, but I can't remember it now. Regardless, it is always hard to differentiate with someone when we're hurt, particularly hard to do so with your therapist. It sounds like you're able to look at how this could be something that is his issue, separate from you (maybe you trigger it with the voice occasionally, but in the end it isn't about you per se). It also certainly seems that you've connected with the idea that he is "good enough".
All very impressive. So... just wanted to pass on those kudos!
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