Posted by Dinah on March 4, 2009, at 21:22:17
In reply to Re: But I still leave feeling hurt sometimes, posted by backseatdriver on March 4, 2009, at 11:27:05
I'm trying to consider whether I could be trying to soothe him. I know I have probably done that on occasion. It's almost automatic with me, if I think it's needed. But I don't recall doing it yesterday. I suppose it's possible.
If I try to transport myself back to picture what was going on, beyond eyelids and glazed eyes, I think what I see may be... disconnect.
Lots of reasons for that possibility, I suppose. Many of which wouldn't have anything to do with me. Hmmm.. I first typed "anything to do with him." I wonder what that means.
I'll try to pay more attention Friday.
I definitely attune to him more than he attunes to me. Always. But again, if he were more like me, he wouldn't really be useful to me.
poster:Dinah
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