Posted by rskontos on December 4, 2008, at 19:27:36
In reply to Re: **Triggering** weekend...., posted by lucie lu on December 4, 2008, at 16:18:36
Hey sweetie,
I am so sorry that you went through this.
Never be afraid to post what happens. I understand how you felt but we love you and want to help. No judgements, Ever!
Remember the emails and phone lines are open. In case you lost those numbers let me know.
Now, everyone is right. If you have something that needs to be discussed with t now you have two somethings.
Give her the printed copy if you have a hard time or you think teen may get angry and try to stop you.
DH was way out of line. He obviously has issues of his own. Take care of you and little one. I am sorry she is sick.
I hope she gets well soon.
Money is always an issue. Sex is always an issue. But you get to have a say when you have it period. My H gets mad but who the hell cares. Well besides him. Not me. I get to say when I have it. Not him. It is a marriage not a job or slavery.
I guess they all thought when they got married they could get it whenever however how often. Wrong. (At least this how a great deal of husbands act, not all but a lot)
I know your h says he will go to counseling but is worried about the money. Maybe you could find a church program with a sliding scale but then he might have another problem. I wonder about his sincerity sometimes.
Just please take care of you.
rsk
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