Posted by antigua3 on December 4, 2008, at 8:50:10
In reply to **Triggering** weekend...., posted by B2chica on December 4, 2008, at 8:23:46
Please try not to feel embarrassed and ashamed; it's a very natural reaction.
I'm sorry your DH forced himself on you. That's terribly hard for you to deal with given your history. I'm just so sorry it had to happen. And I hope you didn't hurt yourself too badly.
I'm familiar with your DH's "money" argument; mine does that to me all the time because he knows how much it presses my buttons. He is more prone to it when sex is an issue between us.
Take a deep breath, take your meds if you need them, properly, and talk to your T. You say you have other things to discuss, but please try to bring this up because it's huge.
Be gentle on yourself. You are a wonderful person. A good mother, I know it, and remember how much joy your daughter (right?) brings you. It can help hold you.
I'm glad you posted. This was so difficult, and I admire your courage. Try to remember that this will pass, and better times will come if you deal w/it as quickly as possible. Or put it away so you don't get overwhelmed.
take care of yourself as best as you can.
love,
antigua
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