Posted by Poet on December 4, 2008, at 10:57:49
In reply to **Triggering** weekend...., posted by B2chica on December 4, 2008, at 8:23:46
Hi B2Chica,
Please don't feel ashamed, you were in emotional pain and you did what you felt you needed to do.
My husband and I fight over money constantly. He keeps harping that I'm not pulling my own weight because I only have a part-time job. That he gets nothing in return for his hard work. Underlining meaning: I haven't had sex with him in over two years.
I think you were triggered by your DH because he didn't back off like he ususally does and you got overwhelmed with those old feelings of being helpless. I'm sorry you were triggered and I hope you can squeeze in talking about it when you see your T. That you want to talk about it is good, trust me, I still won't say a word to my T and I do question if it would be better to just let it out rather than turn it inward all the time.
Take care and keep us posted on how you're doing.
Poet
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