Posted by 10derHeart on November 24, 2008, at 23:22:53
In reply to Re: Hmmm....., posted by onceupon on November 24, 2008, at 22:11:31
Hi onceupon,
I liked the desk description, too. Much like I remember my T's (I have moved across country from him but we are still in touch) without the food. Just an empty soda can or water bottle around.... It matches his personality well, I think. Somewhat of a controlled chaos.
Your T. sounds so comforting. That's a huge deal to me. But I can so relate to the need for more pushing sometimes. I absolutely can't get my T. to do that. Seems he just *can't* even when I almost insist. Not in his nature or part of the Rogerian way he's conducted therapy for 32 years, I guess. I tell him he 's so laid back he follows me to dumb places that waste time...but he says they aren't dumb and no time we've talked has ever been wasted.
I'm glad you posted. I'm glad *we* both posted. It's been extremely hard for me to do that for a long, long time.
(and thanks, Dinah, for the thread)
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