Posted by lucie lu on September 19, 2008, at 23:16:04
In reply to Re: Partners' feelings about your LT therapy? » lucie lu, posted by stellabystarlight on September 19, 2008, at 22:58:52
Sorry, Stella, our posts crossed. So my answer is in the reply to Dinah, above. I guess I envy you too. You say that your DH (sorry, I don't particularly like that abbbrev but my fingers do get tired of typing!) is psychologically sophisticated but mine is not. That doesn't help. Although he did research transference, and he knows how it can manifest itself, but it hardly reassured him! I too thought at one point that things had improved greatly in our relationship due to transferring positive transference (?). I know it helped a lot in my feelings about men, which were difficult to say the least before I was able to attach to my T.
Anyway, it's tough business. No one's right or wrong, I don't think, it's just tough and hurts and I don't know how it will turn out.BTW I like your way of replying - playwright style. I often get lost with all the >>>>
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