Posted by sassyfrancesca on September 16, 2008, at 8:59:08
In reply to Re: I cannot tell my T, posted by JayMac on September 16, 2008, at 1:37:44
Unfortunately, I love sex, but haven't "indulged" since my divorce 3 years ago. My t and I talk about sex a lot. Again (unfortunately), I have been in love with him for a long time. Every time I walk into his office, it is a surreal feeling; we make small talk for a short time, and I want to yell at him: "What's the matter with you.......you know I love you, etc., etc...." Where I have found the strength to not act on my feelings is beyond me!
However....dear original poster; it sounds as if you could be safe in discussing sex with your t; I highly doubt he would think any differently of you; if he is a good t, he would be PROUD of you that you brought up the difficult, painful issues. Hey, if we can't tell our t....who can we tell??!!
you could start in little baby steps, broaching it in increments and see where/how he takes it, or responds.
Hugs n Love, Sassy
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