Re: I cannot tell my T

Posted by JayMac on September 16, 2008, at 1:37:44

In reply to I cannot tell my T, posted by lucie lu on September 15, 2008, at 23:22:01

Lucie,
Sex is such an intimate topic. Really try not to beat yourself up for not being able to talk about sex with your T. Take it as slowly as you need to.
I have a hard time speaking with my T about sex. We have touched (no pun intended) upon the subject a little bit here and there. I felt awkward and embarrassed and shamed. When I told her about one of my first sexual experiences, I completely assumed she would be judgmental and punishing, but she was sensitive and encouraging.
Sex is a HUGE topic of discussion. It really shouldn't be taken as lightly as much of our culture suggests. Both men and women, especially women, avoid talking about the aspects of sex(uality) that need to be spoken of.
I'm wondering if you desire your DH, in an emotional way? Do you connect with him?
Take good care,
Jay

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today's session lucie lu 9/16/08

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