Posted by Happyflower on July 2, 2008, at 18:52:41
In reply to Re: Happyflower, I'll answer that for ya ;o) » sassyfrancesca, posted by LadyBug on July 2, 2008, at 16:38:07
Thanks Ladybug for noticing the thread. HaHa, I always find a way around things. You know I feel anger towards your T and I don't even know her. But I know what she has done to you and it is so inexcusable, and unprofessional. I can't imagine the hurt you feel after all those years, I experienced that hurt, but not for a relationship that long.
I think once your insurance kicks in for therapy again, I would look for a new one. I really think your T has done all she can, and now she has hurt you very deeply. That relationship was a long one and it is going to take probably a long time to overcome the hurt. I really think a new T would be able to help you better. I am so proud of you for writing that letter, telling her just what you think.
I know this will probably be even harder than ending your marriage. It has taken me a year of trying to get over my old T, it is only lessoning now some. To me, when a T hurts a client, it goes way back to what it feels like to be a child hurt by their parents. It is deep and it is hard to heal.Shame on her.
Ladybug I know you are strong, and I know if you are like me you probably don't like hearing that right now, but you can get through this. You are not a toddler. Well maybe I am because I don't share the board here as I was warned.
Please write whenever you feel up to it, I know your work and everything is wiping you out. I am glad you like those you work with. Hopefully you will form some new relationships with them that can carry over into your personal life. You are a treasure to know and I am sure others see that like I do. (((Ladybug)))
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