Posted by rskontos on July 4, 2008, at 14:30:50
In reply to Re: Happyflower, I'll answer that for ya ;o) » frida, posted by LadyBug on July 4, 2008, at 11:44:04
You know LadyBug just one more thing I would like you to consider in all this upheaval. You have survived this loss or change in the T relationship as it is. You have faced something that years ago you probably would have thought unimaginable. And I for one think you are doing a fantastic job of holding yourself together in the face of this loss. Or change. ever how you are looking at it. The dynamics of the relationship have changed for whatever the reasons your t might have and is not sharing with you. And you did not totally fall apart. You leaned, as you should, on us here at Babble, but you also leaned on yourself and an inner strength that you have mastered more than I think you yourself realizes.
I hope you know how well you are doing. Of course you are depressed. The loss of any relationship merits that. But I think in spite of all that you have my friend come to a point from all the losses you have sustained in the period preceeding learned that you can handle alot that life might throw at you and do it with grace and abode.
I admire the way you are holding up. Whatever decision you make it will be the right one for you. It will not be easy but you will be stronger as you go through this and you will not break.
rsk
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