Posted by sunnydays on April 13, 2008, at 17:00:12
In reply to Re: change.... maybe good, maybe not » star008, posted by rskontos on April 13, 2008, at 16:33:28
> Sunnydays, I would have responded to you too but I was in sunny florida.
**** Jealous!!! I live in a coooold place, so I wish I was there!! Although spring is coming... :) Hope you had fun.
I agree with Star. He was just trying to help you contain your anxiety and learn to cope with some things on your own and gently help you with boundaries.
**** Yeah, boundaries are one of those things I never had modeled for me, so I don't really have a good sense of them.
I don't think this T will ever set you on the road until you both feel you are ready. You are moving forward and if anything you might be nervous about that progress. I get that way myself.
**** Yes, I get nervous about progress a lot. Even when at the same time I like the progress. Because it means some aspect of my life is changing, some era is coming to an end... that sort of thing. I just keep reminding myself that the next era is going to be even better.
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> Sorry you did not feel supported when you put something very personal out. I know how hard that is and how it feels to feel like people reacted negatively. we do support you SD.**** Thanks rsk. I was just surprised. But I'm doing ok now.
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