Posted by sunnydays on April 13, 2008, at 16:56:32
In reply to Re: change.... maybe good, maybe not » sunnydays, posted by star008 on April 13, 2008, at 16:02:41
> sunny,,
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> sometimes posts get alot of reponses and sometimes they don't. Try not to take it personally.*** Most of the time I don't take it personally, and I do realize the boards are usually a whole lot quieter on the weekends. I was just in a strong feeling place right that moment. But I'm past that now and feeling ok again. Thanks though. :)
You are right, it is a good sign that you are moving forward.. I think the T has a good point in saying everythng comes out in email and your sessions might be better with out so much of it.
**** Me too. I do agree that when I emailed less we probably had more intense sessions. Not quite sure how it got to where I emailed so much since it started out that I barely emailed at all.
It didn't sound to me like he is trying to get you to leave at all. He is just trying to help you to gain some more independence, (i think). The inner kid doen't like it so much and worries about being abandoned..
**** Yup. I don't really think he wants me to leave since he said he'll see me as long as I want.
I think that is natural too considering some of the history you have probably had.. This is really a good thing, not a negative but I can see how it might upset a part of you.
*** Yeah, I'm trying to be nice to myself too.sunnydays
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