Posted by muffled on March 23, 2008, at 23:18:59
In reply to talked to T, posted by sunnydays on March 23, 2008, at 22:04:24
WOW SD, you got an amazing T for him to phone on holiday!
My T, I could be half dead in hosp, but have no way of contacting her cuz she turns her cell off on hols.
I understand on an adult level that she is just taking care of herself, but part of me definately feels kinda pissed cuz it feel like she not 'there for me', like she SAID she was.
But of course, she IS there for me, as much as any human being can be anyways.
But she no good to me if she all messed up in her own life.
So I glad she take care of herself cuz 1. I want her to be OK just cuz I care bout her. 2. I want her to be Ok so she can continue be my T!!!
But its weird all right.
Glad your T called you back.
I still think its a good thing to tape. I wanted my T to tape but SHE didn't want to.
This world you GOTO take care of yourself.
Your T is smart, he just covering his *ss, cuz thats the way this world works unfortunately. He is being smart to take care of himself.NOT cuz he don't trust you, but cuz then if anyone gives him a hassle, then it will be immediatly clear that there was no wrongdoing and you can continue T w/him. If there were allegations, then you would proly have to stop seeing him for a time COMPLETELY until it was settled, but with tapes, this should not be an issue. So really, the taping ALSO directly protects YOU from being hurt as well.
So all round its a good thing. Sucks that its neccessary, but overall its for the best for BOTH of you.
Take care, hope you can chill some.
M
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