Posted by sunnydays on March 23, 2008, at 22:04:24
In reply to Re: no hugs, no nothing, posted by sunnydays on March 23, 2008, at 19:46:31
He called me back tonight and we only talked for a couple minutes but it was just good to hear his voice and the caring in it and that it really is not as huge as I have made it in my mind. He asked if I would have rather that he just did it and hadn't told me, and I said no. He said before that that he had told me because he knows I like to have things out in the open and know things. And he reassured me that I'm not in trouble. And he said, "I just don't know what to tell you sunnydays. We were just talking about what happened, and I just, I felt, I decided [it's kind of nice when I hear him stumble over his words trying to choose the right ones so I'll feel ok] to do this. But you're not in trouble at all." And I said, "So, everything's the same?" And he said, "Yes, as far as I know. What would be different?" And I just said, "Everything" because it was too big a question for a phone call. But he said everything was the same and we would talk on Tuesday and that I'm not in trouble at all and that I'm having an old reaction.
It was just so reassuring to hear his voice.
sunnydays
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