Posted by rskontos on March 23, 2008, at 18:19:10
In reply to no hugs, no nothing, posted by sunnydays on March 22, 2008, at 11:10:23
Sunnydays,
I just wanted to add my sincerely thoughts that I am so sorry you are feeling so bad. It is a tough situation for you. I, too, would feel so restrained and unable to open up. I, would also, feel like I had done something wrong. But SD, you did not.
It is your mother, who is projecting, that has done the harm here. And she is the one that has the changed things only if you let it. Try for your sake to proceed if you can as if nothing has changed. Try to imagine you are in a play of your life or in a dream and only you and your t will be the audience. This might not work. But maybe with some time and distance you will be able to return to some semblence of a therapuetic relationship. I hope so for your sake.
It is a tough situation. Try to dry your eyes, and go take a walk or if that is not possible go to Camp Comfort. You need some respite.
I hate all this for you. Just when you were making some progress too.
take care sweetie.
rsk
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