Posted by muffled on February 12, 2008, at 23:43:49
In reply to Therapist Speak, posted by Daisym on February 12, 2008, at 23:10:51
Ikids are often not logical. They kids.
Sometimes my IRL daughter gets emotionally upset. She dunno why, I dunno why. I dunno what to say, she got no words. Maybe just a build up from a rotten week? Maybe she sensing her Mom is messed, mebbe all of above and a hundred other little things.
So if I am careful, and not push, she will come to me eventually, and I will hold her.
We just sit and be.
No words.
Just sit.
There is love.
She feels safe I think.
And held.
It must feel like a fuzzy warm safe blanket feeling I guess.
Maybe I say dumb things.
I go now.
Hope your ikids can feel safer somehow.
M
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