Posted by gazo on April 3, 2007, at 19:10:53
In reply to Re: one down one to go gazo, posted by DisTraught on April 3, 2007, at 8:31:25
> You make me think:) I wonder if you could help your T help you by simply giving facts about either one situation or a whole lot of situations. By your NOT not placing any evaluations/judgement your T could help you from there and come up with the questions thereby revealing how hurt you were/are. It's like giving a dog a bone to chew (if you don't mind the analogy, sure hope MY T isn't reading this ;)).
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> Pennyi think those are excellent suggestions Penny. :o) i am trying. i write him letters. i am trying to be as factual and as clear as i can. i do better answering a question than just stating something so i told him that. i have told him as much as i can about how to relate to me and the pitfalls to look out for. i am hoping that if i tell him enough stuff about the defense mechanisms i have and the ways i play duck and cover... maybe he will be able to pick his way around.
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